Merry Christmas!

It has been BUSY BUSY BUSY and has been very hard for me to get the pictures downloaded, edited, and blogged!  Sorry for those of you who have been lurking in the shadows waiting patiently! :0)

There were many craft activities leading up to Christmas.  We had an earring festivity and we all made earrings!  Abby loves her first official "dangles" and wants to wear them every day.  I actually just realized that the pic of Campbell and myself is of another craft where we made crystal dangles from crystals I got in Spain to use for the center piece for the Christmas Eve party.

And this craft was the most fun and rewarding... making fabric head bands!   I am totally addicted to this fabric thing!  Loving it!  Every one made one and then Campbell and I made more for gifts after the girls went to bed... instead of wrapping presents!

Speaking of presents, Christmas morning was fun and it was fun to watch the kids open their gifts.  My mom sent me a gag gift of a false teeth ice mold (inside joke)... that was the funniest gift!  Marc wasn't really into opening his, Abby couldn't open enough, and Brenda soaked in every one!

My dad was here from Alabama and he totally fell in love with Brenda... of course.  I sang at our Christmas Eve service and he was there, that was cool... he cried... so sweet. :0)  Our Christmas Eve party was fun with over 30 people stopping by but noone ate!  We have a freezer full of food... oh well... must have another party!

That's a quick run down... hopefully things will slow down a bit and I can be a better blogger!  We are off to hibachi tonight... Abby and Marc love the fire onion volcano... we'll see what Brenda thinks!  Hugs to you!

Last Week... My friend Campbell came over and brought a gingerbread house to do with the girls!

I confess... I have NEVER made a gingerbread house... such sadness! 

They all had a good time and it came out pretty good!

Friday Morning... Hot cinnamon rolls, cold blueberries, and dancing to

"Frostie The Snowman" in the kitchen in our pajamas!

Saturday... Don coordinates a friend gathering, sweet friends gather,

then later that afternoon... the piano arrives!  It was built in 1905 in Birmingham, Al...

and it was an instant hit with everyone in the house.  Brenda ran upstairs and came

back down with sheet music and played, "Joy To The World", for us all.  It was totally sweet.

Christmas suckers from Aunt Shae Shae!  Saturday night we went to a Jars of Clay concert with

Bebo Norman... it was incredible and the girls loved it. 

Sunday... worship, lunch, and family nap (although Fly Boy had to fly).

At church SO MANY of our friends were in tears meeting Brenda.  Several grown men having lengthy conversations about her and the process with Fly Boy and really being moved.  Our friend's love for her just overwhelms me.  One asked her size to buy her some clothes, another is monograming something for her, and another is coming to take us to breakfast in the morning and then to buy her an outfit.  God is so amazing.  The love he continues to pour out upon us through our friends just continues to humble me... fill me... inspire me!  I am still smiling... big!

Love to you all... Dawn

My Girl

Abby is watching.  Abby is taking it in.  Abby is loving Brenda being here.  Abby is starting to copy.

Brenda makes her bed in the morning.  Abby made her bed yesterday before going to school.
Brenda dresses herself.  Abby dressed herself yesterday and took much pride in letting me know so.  She usually asks me to help her get her pajama shirt off.  "You can do that yourself Abby," I respond.  "I NEED your help mommy!" she replies and then enters the daily morning tension.  It continues with her wanting help getting her shirt on (which she can do) and then buttoning her pants (which she can also do although it is trying for her).  I ALWAYS struggle with the following... does she feel rejected when I won't help her?  When I help her, everything is much more smooth.  Does it make her feel loved when I help her?  Is that her love language?  Or am I enabling her?  Or is she just being controlling, manipulating, and lazy?  This is just PART of the daily battle I have in my head for her/with her each day.

So I was thrilled when she did it all by herself... INCLUDING getting her jacket on by herself that usually causes a good moment of tension with us as she insists she can't do it and I insist she can.  She was proud of herself.  She was a big girl... like Brenda.  And she didn't even mention she had made her bed... I noticed that when I walked by her room to go downstairs and so of course I had to make a big deal out of it and she gave me a sweet smile.

She wants to wear her hair like I have fixed Brendas.  She wants to hold Brenda's hand.  She wants to sleep in the guest bed with Brenda.  She wants Brenda to go to school with her.  She is patient with Brenda and is remembering that Brenda doesn't speak English.  And Brenda is being so sweet with her.  It makes my heart smile... it then overflows to my face!

Abby has also gone over two weeks without a seizure and we Praise our generous Lord for that gift.  She is on the fourth drug that is milder than topamax and we have gone down on the topamax again and are still holding... and we Praise our precious and generous Lord again for that one too!  Our prayer is that we can get off topamax and the new and milder drug will hold her.  Our prayer is that God has and will continue to heal her... we are claiming that one!

I spoke with the chaperone for Brenda's group yesterday.  She spoke with Brenda on the phone for about ten minutes.  When Brenda gave the phone back to me, she was so sweet and loving to me.  She told me that Brenda loves being with our family, LIKES hanging out with the kids and LOVES the dog!  It made me laugh.  When I told her "thank you" in Latvian... she gasped and giggled and thanked me for saying it.  It was obvious that she was touched I had learned it... really sweet. 

We get to meet her tonight at the New Horizons welcome party.  We'll also get to meet the little boy who is in the foster family with her... Toms.  Oh... we thought she was in an orphanage... but she is in a foster family.  I hope to find out more info tonight on all that!

Be blessed.  And thank you so... so... much for sharing our joy in this... for being a part of this with us.  Our friends have and continue to touch my heart so much as they are so genuine in wanting to know about and be a part of this with us.  It makes me see God everywhere... in all of you... just cheering us along and loving us and smiling with us.  It moves me.  Thank you is just not enough.... so "paldies"... "thank you" in latvian!  "Es tevi milu," "I love you."
Dawn 

Such Sweet Smiles

The girls next door love her!  I think they all fit nicely on the sofa (with my amazing new slip covers from IKEA)!  They were all clamoring to sit next to her.  Fly boy made them hot cocoa, a fire in the fireplace and then we all had the beautiful cookie B brought us from her country!  I love simple pleasures and my fly boy!

B and D

Of course she loves Dusty!

B's Room

Our guest room is B's room for now.  In her little bio we read about her, it mentioned that she would love a pink room.  So, I pulled in some pink to make it special for her.  I bought soft pink flannel sheets with snowmen on them.  I stole a pink pillow from Abby's room to put on the bed.  I put a little pink blanket my grandmother made at the end of the bed.  My friend, Bre, painted a pink heart picture as a gift for her... love... Bre painted love.  Then I added some Christmas items to the dresser.  I found a small tree at the consignment store and put little glitter birds and pink glitter balls on it.  Looking at the picture... it needs a little skirt... pink one of course... I'll get right on that!  I also put the welcome poster on the wall for her.

Then I added pink ribbon and ornaments to the bathroom for another touch of pink and

Christmas in the bathroom.  I love the way it turned out.

She likes it.  She has private, pretty, clean space... and she likes it.  It makes me so very happy.

A Glimpse of Heaven

I think one is very lucky if he or she is given moments of clarity in his or her life.  Big moments.  Little moments.  The understanding, peace and joy that follow are the true treasures of heaven, the breath of the Holy Spirit, and the richness they provide... there is no number large enough to capture the value.

Disappointments seem trivial, BUT remain with purpose.  Lost pregnancies, broken dreams, and fallen tears become precious turns on the path that lies in the very hands of the creator and turn with just the sound of His voice, gently leading you by the hand.  Situations, circumstances, and relationships have woven together and created the beautiful tapistry of your life and they fit together in God's perfect plan to create the most stunning picture.  You are left in awe... with excitement for more... more.

I believe it is a glimpse of heaven.  A tiny window, key hole, that we are given the GIFT to peer into... the sweetest gift from the creator of the universe.

And I believe I am very lucky. 
Dawn

The L Word

I don't have a picture today of what I am about to share.  You'll have to use your imagination.  But I promise to have more photos tomorrow... or even tonight!

Yesterday morning took a turn from what I had planned.  My plan was to take Brenda and Abby shopping to get her some clothes.  She came with one outfit... on her back.  We knew this is how it works and so I was prepared.  Luckily the pajamas I had already bought at the consignment store fit perfectly and she loved them!

So she took a shower.  When she came out of the bathroom with wet hair, I thought, "A mother would fix her hair... I wonder if a woman has ever fixed her hair for her... maybe she will let me."  And so I asked... and she gave me a big smile and sweet knod and we were off to my bathroom for some girl time!

I put some of my gel in her hair, brushed it, and started to dry it with the hair dryer.  Immediately I saw it, them, lice nits in her hair, most of them behind her left ear.  I turned off the hair dryer and asked her to wait one moment for me and went downstairs to tell my Fly Boy.  He was so precious and left to get what we needed.

As I walked back down the hallway to my room, I wondered how in the world I was going to communicate this to her and not hurt her.  How would she take it?  So I went back in and just started pulling them out with my fingers.  I could see she was watching me in the mirror and could tell something was up and so I pulled out a strand with a nit on it and showed it to her.  Then I tried to communicate that it was ok and I was going to get them out.

I went right back to work and started humming.  She started tearing up and then the tears started to fall.  My heart broke into a million gazillion tiny pieces.  I got down on my knees in front of her and wiped her tears and told her "no"... "no tears"... and I smiled.  "It's ok... it's ok," I said but she wouldn't even look at me.  So I kissed her hand and then kissed her cheek and held her.  I was praying that the love would just flow through me and give her peace.  I then went out and pulled up my blog on the laptop so my music playlist could play... and went right back to work... this time singing.

I decided to look all over her head for the little culpret and his buddies.  I wasn't even sure what I was looking for as I have never seen the actual lice itself.  Then, on the other side, there one was... like a little dirty flat piece of rice clinched to her scalp.  AW HAW you little varment!  I got it and showed it to her and she understood and I washed it down the drain and looked for more.  There were NO MORE!  Just one.  And just one side of her head with nits.  I PRAISED the Lord for his sweetness in being so sovreign and letting me find it on the first day! 

My knight came back with the shampoo and when I walked into the bathroom with it... she started to cry again.  I reassured her again, holding her face in my hands and caressing her cheeks... "it's ok" I said.  I stroked the sides of her mouth up into a smile and then put the shampoo on.  As it set for 10 minutes... I painted her nails, gave her some earrings, and introduced her to some yummy body spray I have from Gap.  Then I just sat on the side of the tub and held her... hugged her... and she knew... and I knew she knew.... there was LOVE and peace... and smiles... lots of smiles.

After two hours of combing and picking and going over every inch of her head... I dried her hair and fixed it into two cute messy pony tails with flying sprigs and twists... she loved it.  And I loved her... loved her in every way I knew how to... and she accepted it.

Yesterday morning was the sweetest morning ever.  My husband stripped her bed, washed everything, took care of everything while I had that two hours with her in my bathroom.  A precious little girl got her first dose of God's love in the fullest... and my heart grew about ten sizes.  We then went shopping and had a VERY lucky day at Red Door Consignment Store!  There were many more smiles!

The L word was flowing through the house yesterday... Love... Lots of Love!

Not enough words yet...

1:05 a.m.  There she is! (on the right in the black coat)

1:08 a.m.  Here WE are!  I already adore her at this moment... can you tell?

2 something a.m.  Me and B!  After a shower and small tour of our home, me and B

have a snack of abols (apples) and orange and crackers in the kitchen!

2:30 a.m. Precious Brenda

9:15 a.m.  After a sweet little meeting in the hallway, Abby gave

Brenda her gift (Barbi) and they have become sweet little friends!

Every part of me is smiling!  Joy overflows and I feel light!

Last night was the SWEETEST thing.  As she walked into the guest room we

had prepared for her, she took in a great big breath, lit up like a Christmas tree,

and exclaimed with joy.  My heart felt like it was going to explode.  She gave me the

same reaction when I showed her the bathroom!

Her pajamas from the consignment store fit perfectly... she loved them.  We are

going shopping again later... if I can contain this silly smile!!!

(Welcome Brenda!)

On Her Way...

My heart is a flutter.  My soul is aching to hold her.  As she sits, this moment, on an airplane, traveling across the world, what is going through her mind, her heart, her soul?

She is on her way.  Brenda is on her way.  Her plane is scheduled to land at 12:30 a.m.  Just six hours.  And then she is on her way... on her way to our home... on her way to a room filled with love for her with pink flannel snowman sheets on the bed and a pink pillow and pink flowers on the dresser... she is on her way to be flooded with the love of God... on her way to never being the same... on her way to a new hope... a new chance... a new family... a new world.

Abby prayed for her at lunch today.  Abby is at the store with daddy picking out a Barbi for her new friend.  Daddy is at the store... and he is smiling... his heart is smiling and it is the most beautiful thing to my soul.
She is on her way and I get to hold her in just a few hours... I know we will never be the same.

The winds of heaven blew through my soul last night and this morning and I will never be the same.

I seem to have lost all my blog friends and am writing into thin air.  I will be sharing some pictures and a few updates of Brenda... and then I am done for a while.

Love to you all... Merry Christmas... and Happy New Year... may the winds of heaven blow upon you and your family throughout the year to come.  God bless you all.
Love, Dawn

House Arrest Me... Please!

I saw this picture on one of the blogs I follow and thought that if I were to ever be on house arrest (HA!), I could do it forever in this room... with some books, some music, journals, scrapbooking tools, and sushi!  Really.  A year would not be long enough!

Now back to reality... Brenda is coming in 5, five, yes... FIVE days!  It is so crazy that she is almost here.  It is so crazy how I feel such a connection with her and haven't even met her yet!  It is so crazy that I don't know one word of her language! YIKES!  It is so crazy how I don't even care!  And it is so crazy how I will be glued to the latvian language website for the next few days as I make some communication sheets!

And it is so wonderful how God provided all the money we needed (AND extra to share with another family) to bring her here through the generous and giving hearts of our dear friends!  I am blown away to see how so MANY have been involved and to see and feel their excitement for her as well.  It is so wonderful to know that it is God's excitement flowing through them!  And it is so wonderful to share this experience with them and to have so much love and support!

And it is so beautiful to be a part of Brenda's life.  It is so beautiful how God can touch hearts around the world to reach out to children who need His love, who can be transformed by His love, who will never be the same having been loved by Him!  It is so beautiful how women who traveled to get their children were moved by God to do more... more than they could do alone... and started New Horizons.  http://www.newhorizonsforchildren.org/   It is so beautiful how God orchestrates certain orphanages to be willing to participate.  And it is so very beautiful how 80% of the children who come are blessed with a forever family to love them and change their lives!  It is so beautiful how when you change the life of just one child... you change generations! 

I am so lucky.  I am so lucky to have a God with such a big heart!  I am so lucky to have a God who speaks to me and fills me with His presence.  I am so lucky to have a husband with a tender heart for children, for orphans.  I am so lucky to have a husband who loves the Lord and seeks Him with his heart.  I am so lucky to have a husband who loves me and our family so very much.  I am so lucky to have friends who give of themselves and love us and walk with us on this journey.  I am so lucky to have a home big enough to bring another child into for a month.  I am so lucky... so very lucky!

Have a wonderful Tuesday... I know I will!
Dawn~

Happy Weekend!

Happy Birthday My Love!

We had a coyotte in our back yard today.  Every time I see a wild animal, in it's environment, I am just in awe of their grace and elegance.  I thought he was a wolf.  He was bigger than I thought a coyote would be. I was also amazed at how much he looked like a dog.  And even though he started to go into our neighbor's back yard, where their kitten lives, I still thought he was fabulous!  I went out and got the kitten and then beat on my watering can to scare it off.  Then I felt bad when it ran off... I wish I could be a wild animal whisperer and play with them all!

Thank you Lord for showing me such a

 beautiful part of your creation! 

Strader Family Photo Shoot

I love this last photo!  I love all of them... it was so fun to photograph them and they were so fun to get into the VERY cold water!  THANK YOU friends for letting me capture the beauty of your sweet family this fall!

Dawn~